THE TAMARA ABNEY DIFFERENCE
“Presence Is the Complete Package”
Presence is everything — how you carry yourself, how you communicate, how you dress, and how you walk into a room. When all of those elements align, you don’t just show up. You command.
But here’s what sets my work apart: I don’t just inspire you to show up differently. I equip you with the habits and tools to do it every single day — turning confidence from a feeling into a practice, and presence into power.
Meet Tamara
I’m a professional empowerment consultant and personal stylist for professionals, organizations, and women who refuse to blend in.
For over two decades I’ve helped executives, leaders, corporate teams, public figures, and influential women show up with confidence, authority, and intention — in every room, on every stage, and in every moment that matters.
My work lives at the intersection of how you look and how you lead. Because when those two things align — everything changes.




HOW WE WORK TOGETHER
THE ADVANTAGE TRAINING — For Organizations & Professionals
Executive presence. Business etiquette. Confidence and leadership development. I equip professionals — at every level — with the tools, skills, and presence to compete at the highest level. Whether you’re a rising professional, a seasoned executive, or leading an entire organization, this training gives you the edge.
Serving corporations, universities, emerging leaders, and professional organizations.
THE STYLE ADVANTAGE — For Women Who Lead, Shine & Influence
A private, by-request personal styling experience for women of influence, impact, and intention. From galas to boardrooms to stages — I ensure you show up looking and feeling exactly as powerful as you are.
Serving executives, public figures, socialites, and women with somewhere important to be.
"A game changer for my personal and professional style. Whether I'm preparing for a casual outing, business engagement, or formal event — I know I can rely on her impeccable eye and expert guidance." — Colleen McMullen Robinson, Buy Sell Love Pittsburgh LLC.






